Why You Should Stop Explaining Yourself To Others
Judgement is all around us and there’s nothing you can do to stop that. But, you can stop explaining your actions or decisions to others that may have a different mindset on what may be “right” for you.
Start living in a way that the judgement around you is irrelevant and live to be an encourager. Live to be an encourager because the world has enough critics to get by. When you encourage others it shines a light in them and what you see in others, exist in you. Be the light in the room and let it shine through others.
When you live a brighter life, you start to understand your worth in this world. You may not have all the answers but you start to make decisions in your life that pass your good judgement.
It’s no ones job to judge another nor to figure out if someone deserves something or not. People want the perfection that doesn’t exist.
Why should you stop explaining yourself to others?
Ask yourself these questions:
1. Are you happy with your decision?
2. Is your decision beneficial?
3. Is there more good qualities than bad?
4. Can you embrace the imperfect?
5. Can you be unapologetic of your decision?
If you answered “Yes” to at least half of these questions then do what makes you happy and don’t think twice about it because this is your life and live it to the fullest. Make the days count and worry about your life and not what others think about it.
Love you, Later.
I don’t know the perfect person. I only know flawed person that is still worth loving.
Add more kindness to the world, not judgement.